Looking for some advice anyway
Started a new job in July, left one I loved because it was only 7 hours a week and becoming toxic. This new gig is pretty dull though. Got a new manager who's like the sun coming up all guns blazing-you know what I mean? She keeps watching me all the time. Disclosed I have ADHD and don't handle being watched, but she doesn't seem to get it.
In my interview, the hiring manager-I think they called them John-said I wouldn't be working weekends. But since starting, I've had to do every Saturday or Sunday or both. Last week they messed up my pay by £116 which caused a ton of stress. I kept bugging my manager and she finally sorted it but with an attitude.
Yesterday I messaged her saying I won't come in today because of panic attacks, said I'll be back on my next shift though and maybe we can talk about adjustments. Wrote down some points to bring up but not sure how to say them nicely. Thinking about seeing a doctor for medication-I used to take it when younger, stopped at 15.
Have another job lined up in December and really need this one to go well so I can move out with my partner who's been desperate to do that forever. Feeling super anxious becase I might not be able to handle the new place if I don't get my anxiety under control. Any advice? Also, had my PIP assessment on Tuesday over a video call-anyone else ever gone through that?
Thanks for any help!
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I went through a PIP assessment recently, and let me tell ya, it's tough to figure out what to do. One thing I found really helpful was having someone there for support during the meeting. Plus, makinng a list of all your issues beforehand can be super useful.
The whole point of thiis assessment is to understand your needs based on a strict scoring systtem. It can be tricky getting across how you feel and what you need since sometimes it might get lost in translation. So, make sure you're crystal clear with the examiner about everything that's going on for you.
It's really important to talk to your doctor too-they're there to explain your situation and advocate for you. If you haven't seen them yet, definately book an appointment ASAP. Your doctor can help outline all your problems and treatments.
Also, remember, if things don't go well, you can always appeal the decision. The CAB is a great resource for figuring out how to move forward from there.
I'm in the same boat - my mom and my boyfriend are super busy with work and can't swing taking time off. Thanks for the tip on making lists though, honestly needed that