Feeling lost and unfulfilled
I recently quit my first proper job as a lifestyle assistant at a nursing home where I worked with residents who had varying degrees of brain injuries. The lack of support made the experience very challenging, and I struggled immensely over the five months that I was there. At 31 years old, this is my primary employment record so far, which makes me feel embarrassed.
I often feel like a failure because I am expected to move forward with my life when I still face significant difficulties. Being autistic and dyspraxic adds extra challenges that make tasks harder than they should be. Growing up and taking on responsibilities has been particularly tough for me, especially since losing my stepdad four years ago. It's difficult to feel strong enough to cope with everything
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Keep exploring different job options because you won't know what suits you until you try them. I found volunteering very helpful before starting paid work. There is also the website myautismteam.com, where people with autism or parents of children with autism can connect and offer advice on various topics. You might find it beneficial to join and see how it feels over time as you build your support network.
I appreciate your response.
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I'm really sorry to hear about your stepdad, you two seemed close. Maybe I've got some traits of autism-I just don't always think and act like everyone else. I'm curious, wht is dyspraxic? I know plenty of people who deal with depression or anxiety but haven't had as much work experience as you have. I hope you're doing the best you can in this tough world...
Thanks. Some people don't get it. Miss my stepdad. Look up Dyspraxia.
Got it, I'm on it-no need to worry!