Feeling Lost And Struggling-no End In Sight
I've been feeling pretty hopeless and tired lately.
I'm 31 and honestly, I feel very unsure about where my life is headed, particularly with career stuff. I got a bachelor's degree in finance, but I never worked in that field, so it feels like the education didn't really give me much practical help. Now I feel stuck without any clear path forward or a sense of what kind of job would suit me well.
The thing that makes this even harder is my mental health struggles. I deal with lots of anxiety and periods when I feel pretty low in mood, along with self-doubt. It's really tough to make decisions and think long-term when I'm dealing with all this stress and doubt about myself. When people ask what I want to do professionally, I honestly don't have an answer, which just adds to my frustration.
I've thought about going back to school as a way to maybe find some direction or focus on something more meaningful, but again, I'm not sure what to study or if it would even make sense. The idea of committing so much time and money while feeling this unsure is really daunting.
Overall, I feel stuck both practically and mentally. I'm wondering how others might handle a situation like this. If you were dealing with uncertainty about your career and also managing anxiety or confidence issues, what would be your focus? How did you start finding direction when you felt as lost as I do now? Hearing different perspectives or experiences might help me figure things out.
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I totally feel you when you're feeling stuck. It really helps me to just do something small to get started.
I used to have a job but then went back to school. Getting more education ended up opening up some new opportunities for me. I think it's helpful to consider what kind of jobs you're interested in and then see what educational requirements they need.
By the way, your writing seems really smart. And you're only 31, so you still have lots of time ahead. I hope you can find a job that makes you happy or maybe even volunteer somewhere that gives you fulfillment and joy.
It sounds like your situation is similar to mine. My son turned 20 this year and went to college after finishing high school. He completed a two-year joinery course but hasn't been able to get into the third year,so he doesn't have full qualifications as a joiner. This is causing him a lot of frustration because it feels like his efforts over two years are going to waste.
He can't secure the job he wants and compares himself to others his age who have jobs, cars, and money. He's struggling with low self-esteem and confidence, feeling left behind at this point in life. He's unsure about what career path to take now that his initial plan is out of reach.
He has applied for various positions like bartender, labourer, and barista but finds it challenging to secure these jobs withoout experience. It creates a frustrating cycle: how can he gain the experience necessary if no one hires him?
Currently, he's staying at home and often feels stuck and lost. He used to be outgoing and happy, but this situation is affecting his mental well-being. To help himself, he started going for walks, recognizing that something needs to change.
He has also been contacting companies directly about open positions, but they rarely respond. I hope you find a path that suits your interests and abilities. Best of luck to you.
I am sorry to hear about your situation. I feel stuck sometimes due to my condition as well. I agree that education can offer new opportunities. For instance, consider looking into online volunteering or continuing your studies, like I did when I started university at 32. It's never too late. The world is full of possibilities. Wishing you the best and good health. You can find more resources on classcentral.com/report/fre...
Yeah, I totally get where you're coming from, honestly. It's like, just keep grinding and putting yourself out there-sending those applications left and right-and don't hesitate to hit up your buddies or even your folks for some support. They probably have connections you haven't thought about yet. And you know whhat? The thing is, opportunity can be sneaky like that. You might not see it coming, but suddenly, something good could pop up when you least expect it-around the corner, basically. Keep pushing and staying optimistic!