Lowkey hoping for change tho
in 2023 i was about to finish college and planned to go abroad for masters but parents said no so i did online mba instead. then got a med coding job. after that, an optometry role in chennai which i didn't likke much so quit. later worked at optical shop here but had limited duties so left again.
then tried flutter dev courses went through many interviews but failed cos of optometry backgnd. switched to hr jobs and finally scored one with 12k salary no savings, work stress af my gf suffered too.
later a biz friend asked me to join his firms as manager. he had glass manuf and hardware plans i agreed but hw business didn't start so ended up ilding without pay. gf left me n life got worse, felt depressed so quit.
now in hometown at an eye clnic 10k/month feel rael alone no one to talk too msis her a lot been struggling for 2 years now
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Hey there...
Just wanted to say bless you for sharing all that, brother. If someone was nice to their girlfriend during tough times but she still left, it's probably because she wasn't truly invested in them like they thought. Maybe she cared more about the potential success and money coming down the line instead of being with a person who had genuine feelings for her.If you wre really trying your best like you mentioned-adn I do believe you will find success eventually-her leaving just shows how impatient she was, only interested if things happened faster than they naturally could.
From my experience, having someone like that back in your life can be super risky and might cause even more pain down the road. Especially if you're not meeting all her expectations of being some successful big shot rigt off the bat. You gotta focus on moving fowrard and getting over it bit by bit. I've been there before when my ex left me, thinking everything was over, but now? Laughing at how dramatic I once was.
You've already made it through two years without her, so you can definitely keep going. And trust me, one day you'll thank your lucky stars that she's gone because you'll find someone way better suited for you.
Just take care of yourself and work hard on making things happen-ur talents are clear as day. It might seem slow now, but the future looks bright. All the best to both you and her as you navigate through life, finding your paths forward.
Nature can be a real jerk sometimes, isn't it? Everyone's just trying to survive in their own way, some of us get too wrapped up in ourselves though.
Keep calm and carry on, brother. Peace and blessings to you!
thx so much 4 ur wors they rlly hit home u kno? it means a lot tht u took the time to listen & be there tbh ur msg gave me peace & i m super gr8ful for yr support i ll keep this in mind when things r rough istg