Feeling so lonely irl
im 33, live alone, no fam tbh. been neglected n abused since young, so many s/a happened too,some exes. feel super isolated, no real friends who care or want 2 help.
also terrified of the dentist, can't handle being touched there. need sedation but gotta have someone with me as an escort.
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I guess fear of the dentist is pretty common, right? But I personally don't have that issue-like, I've had teeth pulled and stuff without feeling too scared.
It sounds like your childhood was tough though, maybe that's why you feel isolated sometimse. I think it's important to try and open up to people who want to be friends. Don't be afraid to accept soomeone's offer of friendship-it can really help.
Sometimes the best friendships come from unexected places. Just remember, even when you're feeling alone, other people are out there going through similar stuff. You're not so different from everyone else. The key is finding ways to cope with your feelings and past experiences.
I think talking to a therapist might be helpful too. It doesn't fix everything overrnight but it can really assist in making sense of what you've been through. If you have the means, consider seeking professional help privately-it's good to have someone who listens without judgment.
I hope my advice is somewhat useful.