Therapy For Man Who Hates Women
Trigger alert, don't read if you're sensitive.
Females are a problem for me. Therapy won't work because I'm surrounded by careless women who make it worse. My family sucks too. I've talked to almost 600 on dating apps and had lots of sexual encounters-nothing surprises me anymore. Women are generally annoying, but some are amazing and others are evil.
I have social anxiety and use dating apps as a crutch. People say I'm overconfident but who knows? No one taught me about friends growing up, just education and career. Now I'm messed up and won't get married or have kids until my parents die.
Readign books on women helps a bit. Still, therapy is a waste since real life ruins it. Womne always seem to want something back. Love from women isn't possible; they stay for survival only. How can therapy help with that?
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relationships tend 2 repeat & stuff. like ur rel w rite now is prolly shaped by how u grew up wid ur parents. i get tat u have a lot of agner from back then & it's showing up rn. but the thang is-a therapist can help u learn new ways to handle stuff.
books are cool 4 self help but having someone actually talk to u, like a therapist, helps cuz they'll show u sh*t u prob wouldn't see on ur own.
if u wanna change how u interact with ppl, wouldn't meeting w an actual person be the best way? therapists r thre to support u & help u practice new stuff in a safe space.
& honestly, the longer u wait 2 make changes, the harder it gets. so if u want things 2 be diff, now is probs better than later
Therapy only helps if you try.
It's like having a coach; useless if you don't put in work. Some have bad experiences, but that doesn't mean all women therapists suck. If you keep finding the same issues, maybe it's time to change something?
A therapist can suggest stuff, but if you hate them anyway, what's the point?