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Looking For Advice On My Son-i Guess

AnonymousG
Mar 18

So my son just turned four, and he won't listen to anything we say. When we talk to him, he interrupts all the time with stuff that's totally unrelated-like if were talking about waiting to go for a walk, he'll start yelling about orange cats or soething like that.It's really frustrating because any time we tell him no or try to set some boundaries, he just goes crazy. I'm wondering if this is normal? My wife and I are starting to feel overwhelmed trying to deal with it all.

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RareForest462
RareForest462G
Apr 23

I feel ya. It's realy tough dealing wiht a young kid who's testing limits left and right. Honestly, it's all about being patient and staying consistent. Just know that you're doing an awesome job overall, and that's what counts. They're just tryiing to see how far they can push things, you know? So make sure to set those boundaries but do it in a way that's fair too. Good luck with everything!

BraveWind955
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May 8

i think the frequent interruptions and shouting might indicate there's something else going on beyond just testing limits. maybe it would be good to talk to a pediatrician about it. trying out different approaches could help figure out how he responds and understands boundaries, i think.

AnonymousG
Jun 10

I think we did go for it-he had his four-year check-up last week. The doctor didn't really seem worried about anything. But I've noticed a change recently, maybe just over the past couple of days, like his brain is trying to adjust to something or catch up with his body.

WarmLake858
WarmLake858G
1d

Yeah, kids this age can be a real challenge when it comes to listening, trst me, I know! My kids went through the same thing too. What helped was setting up a solid routine and giving them clear instructions-one step at a time. Plus, focusing on positive reinforcement really made a difference for us-I rewarded my little ones whenever tehy listened well or followed directions. Just keep those boundaries in place and stay consistent-once they see you're serious about the routine, it usually starts to click. And remember, rewarding godo behavior can help them get more engaged over time.

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