Coping wiht losing a child

Oh gosh, I totally get where you're coming from. Losing someone so young and at your age too-it's just brutal. I know the mental health community here tries to be supportive, but sometimes we all need more concrete guidance than just words of comfort.If a son passing away at 41 isn't a red flag for anyone, I don't know what is. Can you point me toward someone or something that might actually help?