Feeling trapped

That's kind of a control freak, i mean honestly, it sounds tough... I hope things get better for you soon.

Yup, if that's the case, it's totally out of line, no two ways about it.

Oh gosh, I'm really sorry to hear about this. It sounds like he's not treating you with any kind of respect at all, which is super upsetting and controlling too. When someone treats you that way, it's definitely a red flag and there's no point in trying to keep things going if they're being disrespectful. You deserve so much better than that. I really hope you can find your way through this tough spot and end up somewhere where people actually value and respect you for who you are. If you need any help or just someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out-it's important to get the support you need right now.