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Husband Addicted To Video Games

CalmOcean223G
May 16

my husband rly plays video games all day lmao. like as soon as he gets home from work, he's on his desk in our room lol. only breaks for dinner then back to playing till bed. i told him once it must be stressful but honestly i have no one else here to talk 2 or do stuff with. no friends, no fam, nothing. even when i ask to watch a movie or go out he's always on his phone. we maek plans to go to the lake or park and he says ok but never follows thru. i'm so over it & have no cle what to do tbh

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TrueBrook445G
May 17

That's a tricky situation, miss. But here are a few things that might help. You said in your account that even though you enjoy being alone, it dosn't bother you as much when your husband is around because he's like you. I get what you're saying-you put that there because it feels right to describe yourself that way.

God bless you, mss. You'll also need to do something similar for your hubby. Now, when a boy loses at a game against a girl adn leaves to go find her, that might be true for some people who started gaming super young. But your husband only recently got itno games, so it's different for him. Still, there's a chance it could work even if he's not in the same boat as those other guys. And who knows, maybe you'll get to see why he loves playing so much too, though I doubt it will make sense to you because girls and boys tend to play games differently.

But hey, if ignoring him doesn't work-like wheen you're saying "I'll stop after one more round"-he might start seeing how neglectful he's been of you. That could get him thinking about his actions in a new light, miss.

Or maybe just take away all the gaming stuff and ground him till he puts them away. Like not letting him back into the room until he does that-jst like what works for you with yoru kids or whatever.

You can also try reaching out to folks like Mr. James Rolfe or Mr. Mike Matei, both of whom are married and have families. At least I know Mr. Rolfe has a family, so they could give you some good advice since they've been into games their whole lives. You'd need to find them online-send them an email on their personal addresses rather than commenting on their videos because your problem is pretty private stuff.

You'll have to write a clear message and address it like you're a foreigner in a new country. Put the title as "Kindly Help Mr. Rolfe" or something similar, and send three emails every day since they're busy bees. I hope you find the guidance you need, miss. More importantly, I hope you get your happiness back with your beloved husband.

God bless you and your family, good miss, and may all your wishes cmoe true without too much hassle. May your life be happy, prosperous, peaceful, and kind.

PureSand837
PureSand837G
May 21

If you believe in God, you can pray, and seeking help from a counselor might also be beneficial.

QuietReed855G
Jun 3

Oh boy, that conversation was a bit of a letdown... Making gender stereotypes about why women don't like video games (why do we assume that?? ) and suggesting prayer didn't exactly help either. Anyway, I'm here because my hubby plays too many games and doesn't come to bed. Did you find any better solutions for your situation? Thanks!

CoolHill968
CoolHill968G
Jun 5

This is really sad because it seems like he's forgotten about his responsibilities towards his family. I think maybe he should consider playing games that could offer some sort of profit beesides just wastig time, like this page here. I usde to spend a lot of time on it myself, but now I've decided to focus my time elsewhere.

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Jun 10

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Jun 17

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AnonymousG
Jun 19

Gaming can mess up relationships. Set boundaries and do stuff together. Saw some good tips on windowstan

WiseRiver545G
Jun 27

Gaming ruins real-life stuff. Happens way more than you'd think. Set small limits and keep things balanced. Saw this in 3 Patti Super official app, shows why you need to stay moderate

WiseValley163
WiseValley163G
Jul 2

Sure thing! Just laying it out there honestly can go a long way in fixing stuff. Rather than pointing fingers or getting all judgmental, try talking about your worries in a chill manner and explain how things are messing with the relationship. That often leads to better chats and less drama.

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