Facing parental pressure and control from childhood
Hey there, I'm 17 right now and turning 18 in about 8 months. I've been dealing with some pretty intense parental pressure and control my whole life. They've made me do things that weren't really what I wanted to do, and they used threats like taking away my stuff if I didn't comply. Now, I'm using this phone to try and find emotional support, but every time I don't follow their rules, they threaten to take the phone from me. It's been really stressful for me, and sometimes it even feels like there's a constant pain in the back of my head because of all that pressure. I wish things were different with other people around. Sometimes when I try to talk about how I feel, they see it as disrespect or something offensive against them. They put so much stress on me and blame me for stuff I can't control or don't want to do. I'm hoping someone here can offer some help. Thanks a lot.
8 Replies
Thanks! Honestly, I really appreciate it-totally made my day.
Anyway, one of these days you'll be out of there, and honestly, I really hope your dreams of freedom are what keeps you motivated and prepared for it all. Hugs if you're into that kinda thing
Thanks a bunch, honestly! Anyway, gotta go-talk to you later!
Hey there, how's it going anyway? Just wonderiing how you're hanging in there.
You'll get out one day. Hope that helps.
Hugs if u want
I totally relate to that. It's really tough sometimes, like the pressure is just so overwhelming. I think just accepting where you are now might help, and try being teh kind of change you'd want to see around you. Maybe don't do anything that could hurt others or your own kids someday. You can definitely be that positive change if you want to. I really hope you find a way out of depression and starrt feeling happier. Keep looking for something meaningful in life and live it up! Fingers crossed for you, man!
That sounds difficult.
I am here if you need someone to talk to. Others who might listen would also be willing to help. You will overcome this eventually. Please do not lose hope.
I know the struggle, like seriously, my phone is practically my lifeline for getting through the day, you know? But then it's always "if you don't shape up, no more phone"-it feels so unfair when I'm just trying to cope. Honestly, sometimes I wonder if they even listen to me at all. It sucks, man. *sending some virtual hugs your way*