Finding love in today's world - honestly, it's a journey
Hey there, I'm 32, femme-aligned but boyish, and yeah, being gender-fluid is rough sometimes. Dating can feel like a maze on those days-any advice out there?
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You know, when you're out there trying to connect with someone on dates, it really helps if they share your kind of thing-movies, books, cats, whatever floats your boat. But honsetly, the biggest deal is just being super comfy in your own skin and not worrying about putting on some kind of act. Just be genuine and let that shine through-it's pretty much a magic formula for making connections feel real and special.
Honestly, dating these days feels like a real uphill battle for most folks. You know how it goes, getting a good date feels like winning the lottery-like seriously. Then you get there and everyone's head is buried in their phones, talking to who knows what instead of each other.I mean, if someone came up to me and said they're into dating someone in their 30s and are gender fluid? That would be cool by me-I'm down for that kind of openness. Anyway, my advice? Head out there and mingle at local events where you actually have a chance to meet people face-to-face.
