Personal Q anyway
Can treats and insults actually resolve any issue? You know, sometimes it feels like the words you say can be equally impactful, but they end up having totally different results depending on how you deliver them. I had some problems with smeone recently, and this person kept dropping these really genuine little treats-kind of random nce things here and there. So, I decided to change my own approach too and started speaking softly and quietly to him. Surprisingly enough, we ended up agreeing more often and the tension kind of melted away.
I'ts all about that metal attitude-or maybe it's not even metal at all, just a different way of looking at things
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I'm happy you were able to work things out. Sometimes finding a way to make peace can really help.
But for me, constant insults feel like they cross a line into disrespect. Oveer time, that would be tough to overlook.Everyone has their limits and triggers, right?
At some point, I think it's important to set boundaries and take care of yourself if something feels toxic. Saying sorry or offering peace can only do so much. After a while, those actions might not mean as much anymore.
Just my two cents though-everyone sees things differently.