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I have a best friend and anotehr friend who I share some hobbies with. Maybe it's wrong of me to talk about the hobbies we dno't share together with my best friend. We see each other every day at school and I do chat with that other friend there, but then my best friend got really upset and had a fight with me over it
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Friendships are indeed unpredictable. Perhaps your best friend is feeling insecure about losing your friendship? It's understandable to express these feelings.
You have a few options: You could introduce the other friend to your bestie so that all three of you can bond together.
Alternatively, you might want to reassure your besst friend that you value her friendship and aren't planning on going anywhere. Plan a fun outing just for the two of you.
When talking to her, let her know that you didn't mean to exclude her; you were simply exploring different hobbies but are eager to find new adventures together.
Were you just venting or actually looking for feedback?
If you wanted advice:
Sometimes people start fights over small stuff without even realizing it, just to see if you care.
Some folks have no real talent or ambition. They use emotional manipulation instead of actual achievements to feel good about themselves. Tey build a fake network based on petty emotions.
Good thing is, you can ditch those toxic people and find friends who are sane.